Had several meetings today, the first financial meeting and the third 4-way atty meeting. Financial meeting went okay, but we had some issues in the atty meeting. W is repeatedly asking for more stuff from me because she "gave up ten years of her career" and now should be compensated for that. Also, she thinks agreeing to 50-50 custody is a huge concession and I should basically roll over on everything else because of it. I agree its a very good start but that doesn't mean I just give her everything from here on out.
Made some progress digging up issues that exist, and I think the next meeting will go better, but this just sucks. She says I've given up nothing, and she feels like she's given everything so far. Right, I just lose my house, half the next nine years with my kids, and half my net worth, but I'm giving nothing. The finance guy said if we both feel like we got flattened, then the D will be fair. Well, so far, it's working.
Last edited by built4speed; 02/03/0704:08 AM.
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