Quote: The scariest part is that I KNOW that I will be fine, I will be happy. If not with my wife, with someone else. But I would so much rather that it be with my wife! But that is no longer my decision.
steph, don't let this feeling scare you it is exactly how you should feel, isn't it what we all talk about in regard to the was, love is a choice?? no you don't depend (well shouldn't anyway) on another to live and live happily. so realizing that you WILL be fine with or with out wife, is not a bad thing or a scary thing it is a good thing. LL