Ben, don't curl up and throw in the towel. Things aren't always as bad as them seem. I to am worried about the financial consequences of my W's mis adventures, but I'll be damned if I'm going to lay down with a bottle in hand and take it.
You have rights and your Attorney can help you protect them. Give him/her a chance.
Hang tough bro!
"It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare." -Mark Twain
