I'm done with the 2x4's - just don't want him going backwards. Ben - don't give her anything she can use against you - remember your ace in the hole - she's an alien living with a SO.
just be cooooool man
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
Ben, don't curl up and throw in the towel. Things aren't always as bad as them seem. I to am worried about the financial consequences of my W's mis adventures, but I'll be damned if I'm going to lay down with a bottle in hand and take it.
You have rights and your Attorney can help you protect them. Give him/her a chance.
Hang tough bro!
"It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare." -Mark Twain
I am trying... I have four friends here keeping me under control....By the way I have done one thing stupid tonight...I have drank...Something I have not done inn months...I am just in a very bad spot right now and I have f-ed uped tonight. I can not wait until tomorrow because it will be a different day....I am sure AT/CM/1210/Ian/whatisis are going to kick my a$$ tonight for drinking but it is what it is. I fell off the wagon tonight because I did not have enough faith. I screwed up bad...
Don't beat yourself up over this. We all fall at some point in some way or another. We just have to get back up and press on.
And I know that you have what it will take to do just that.
So as far as this night goes...just erase, erase, ERASE.
Ben, don't use your sitch to turn back to booze! That's what losers do and you are NOT a loser! You've come so far in a very difficult situation and are winning, believe it or not! As you say, tomorrow is a new day...one day at a time. P.S. she knows you've quit drinking, if she finds out you're boozing again she could use that against you in any custody case, don't let that happen. You're a good loving Dad, stay sober for yourself and your kids. Btw I can't find where I put my 2 X 4 so I'll just give you a manly hug tonight and a smiley guy!
just be cooooool man 
