The thing that helped me through all of this was really understanding that I have NO control over anyone but ME. Once I focused on ME and making ME happy, H came around. Nothing you do can control H...and honestly, his pace will be 100x slower than what you think it ought to me or even what you think it is.

Let him drive the reconciliation. Focus on YOU. GAL/PMA is the way to go....

SD

Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!