Steph, you have discovered a new phase in your r. It sounds like it is what you need to do now for you. I don't have young children to be able to interact with h, so I don't really have any reason to call him. I just wish I knew if he would like me to. i was gooing to tell him that i miss him, but maybe a week is tooooo soon to say that.

Your d will be ok if you are not there for everything, as long as she knows you will always be there for her.
Enjoy your new peace, you deserve some r and r.
Sue