Problem with this new decision and how to go about it is I made a bit of a fuss about wanting to be there for the skating lessons. I know my wife, she will say "Just two days ago you sooo wanted to be there every time...and now you're not going to come!" So I simply reply what? "Sorry, I can be there if you want me to be, I just thought I would leave you two girls on your own and do a couple of things that need to be done on my end." She will reply that she doesn't mind me being there, that she hopes I am NOT doing this only because of what she has said and so on...ARGHH...its a game we are playing and I hate it! Back and forth. I WANT to be there, but NOT in my wife's way and NOT the one that does everything (i.e. be the only one on the ice). And I dont much feel like being around my wife these days...lots of negativity between us and a break is a welcomed change for both!
