Thanks Kaw...I was thinking of simply not calling or showing up, but this is where the negative vibes were going to come into play...by simply stating that I may have other things to do, by asking permission, I do plant a seed.
Quote: I also expressed that there would be a limit to what I would be patient with and therefore there was a danger she may cross a line where I would determine the M was not worth saving and there would be a point of no return.
And this is what you told me not long ago, and it is where I am heading! I no longer wish to be the oonly one initiating any contact and family time and yes, she will need to make a decision. Skate alone with D, or invite me, but ONLY if she wishes to! That way, it is on her terms!
