Steph, go for some alone time, your wife is a good mom right? If she chooses not to take your d to skating, it won't be the end of the world. You have been very involved on weekends with wife and d, but maybe you do need to try and back off a little. But you have to do it in a way that w does not see it as you being the bad guy.I think you have done a great job balancing all of this. You need some alone time. Sue