Quoting lostlove: steph, I understand how you feel, you don't want your d to miss out on something she enjoys just to show your wife that you wont be there for her,
Wow, maybe its cause I'm French...but you just put into words exactly what I've been trying to say for two days! Thing is, my wife will see it as a BAD thing...my not showing up. Like I'm trying to atangonize her, or I am being childish and resentfull "If she shows up all hungover and unable to skate...then I wont even bother showing up" type thing.
Although I agree with you and Kaw. Its her time with daughter...I should get out of the way, enjoy a pot of coffee and my Saturday paper for a change!
