UA...It is considered a gift....That is what the atty told me. To save my a$$ I would pretty much have to file. I really do not see any other options. That is why I am here looking for answers.
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."
That sounds like your friend was obligated to pay based upon their agreement.. which was made an order of the court. So yes.. your sitch is different. You are under no obligation to pay anything to her until there is an order in place.. your prior payments are gifts .. because you were under no legal obligation to pay... but since you were not obligated to pay.. you do not owe any arrearage.
I know we talked about this before..Please get an appt with local counsel and thoroughly go through the financials with him or her.. it appears the time is ripe for that to happen now.
I am. I am calling one on Monday. I think I might have to go all the way now to let her see that I am not f-ing around about this. Hurts to have to say that and I am still not just walking away but she is totally f-ed up in the head.
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."
Btw.. you dont want the CSEA determining the amount of child support.. those "Hearings" are pretty ridiculous... Go see counsel asap.. perhaps it is time to file.. and pursue temp. orders for custody/CS on your behalf.. for you ?
You circumvent CSEA by having the court decide the issue... She is cohabitating with a SO.. I presume she is still without her own apt ?.. I would "guess" the court would probably think it to be in the best interests of your two kids for them to be at the marital residence.. just my guess...
