Quote: Going to the lessons...cause I want to for my daughter and bringing my skates and being on the ice...as I told my wife I wanted to! Waiting to see if my wife asks me to come Not going at all and letting my wife deal with single motherhhod...since I DO believe I have been making life a tad easy for her by ALWAYS being there when it came to our daughter
if this is your wifes scheduled time to be with d, then let her be with d. if she asks you to come along then you decide to accept or not. and you need not always be there for her (w) when it comes to your d. children need parents yes but they do not always need both of them at the same time. just as you are able to be there for your d without the help of your w, let w be able to be there for d without your help. the way you say giving her a taste of single motherhood sounds a tad angry, (but then again i am just reading words) yes it is true she will have to learn that even though she may not want to be a w, she is and always will be a mother that is something she cannot chose, perhaps it would be best for you to stay away when it is mommy time, let her learn to appreciate the time and get her butt out ont he ice with d. LL
