Quoting KAW: What you have been doing is drawing her closer, but it feels to her like she is stepping onto an unsteady plank with the old pain surrounding her. One false slip...
That's part of what you wrote on 11/8. BINGO. But she is the one bringing all that old pain back into the discussion! Perhaps as a message? I dont know.
I am glad to hear that this has happened to someone else! Makes me feel like al is not lost! And yes, I am making plans for myself this weekend (I dont have d tis weekend) and will try (damn its hard) NOT to contact my wife...actually, I think a weekend alone would be ice...I need the rest!
Thanks Kaw...you hit it on the head once again! Steph
