Calm down Ben.....You will be ok. If you have the kids this weekend, you can always bring them over to the house to play. Do something to get away and enjoy yourself.
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."
Ben our state CS Calculator thing is based on both of our incomes and for instance, with our income, it costs $600 a month to raise our D, but that's split between us so he only has to pay $300 or so...
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
Yea but I am still screwed. However I will deal with that when I cross that bridge. I think I should have listened to the atty when I talked to them and just ended it legally. So far we are looking at $700 bucks amonth for the past 7 months. Do the math....
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."
Well my friend kinda went through the same thing and he was paying his Ex the money they agree'ed upon in there disaloution before it happened and they made him pay it so why would I be different. They told me that everything I gave her was considered a gift. That is a quote.
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."
OK - let's say you DO have to pay retroactive even though SHE moved out and hooked up with JSO........YOU have been giving her HOW much a month already? I'm assuming that you supplying groceries weekly, etc. would count towards that.
DON"T get all hemmed up - you have all weekend so don't start stewing now ok?!
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
