I was just reading your post on my thread, you are such an inspiration, sounds like your w does need time, it must hurt to be told that she does not want to be in thte m, but remember they say strange things. I believe in not digging up blame from the past, but I think some things have to be talked through in order for forgiveness and healing to begin.I really recomend John Gottmans book "Seven Principles of Making MArriage Work" It gives some different perspectives from Dr. Hang in there, it will all be worth it in some miraculous way that we just don't know about yet!! Sue
