Can any veterans on here help me with staying calm and patient whilst peicing. I am finding it really difficult and have been in tears in front of H every day for the last four days and crying on my own for the last week and a half. Things are going well except for:
H says he isn't ready to kiss even let alone ML (he doesn't even know why he isn't)
H doesn't know how he feels about wearing wedding ring
He says he hasn't moved back for it to fail but won't say he's back for good no matter what
H is starting to feel pressured re SL as it is the only thing left to sort out really but he can't even reassure me that it will happen eventually. I know I need to stop how I'm feeling or I am going to drive him away but I can't seem to do it. I'm a wreck. I feel worse than when he first left which I think is because I feel closer to him now than I did then because we are getting on great. Because I feel closer I'm more scared of losing him now.
I see that a lot of you have been doing this for a while and seem to be handling it excellently. How do you keep calm and patient when it isn't going at your pace?? How can I stop stressing about H not wanting to come anywhere near me? He says its not because doesn't find me attractive. But that worries me more because what if it is some reason that cannot be fixed??
