Wow!!!! You need to get lawyer. Who has the kids the majority of the time or do you all split 50/50? If the time spent is 50/50 then you will have to pay less.
Just out of curiousity have you ever figured out what you would have to pay? If my H were to divorce me, I would get around $800 for child support. Not that I want it to come to this, I am just keeping my options open just in case.
Yep I have them 50% of the time other than when she decides to come and get them on my days. I will owe over 780 bucks according to the calc. I am F-ed. My day is shot. I am really pissed off right now. With my next check I am going to talk to a Lawyer. She wants this not me so she can dig her own grave.
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."
Yep I have them 50% of the time other than when she decides to come and get them on my days. I will owe over 780 bucks according to the calc. I am F-ed. My day is shot. I am really pissed off right now. With my next check I am going to talk to a Lawyer. She wants this not me so she can dig her own grave.
Atta boy!!
Get you an atty. Cut off her grocery money. She wants to play?? The calc. might be entirely different when you sit with an atty. If this is what she is going for, then there is no need for her to come get the kids on your days. You forget you hold the JSO card also.
Stand up for you and those kiddos. You have backup with that beautiful girlfriend of yours. I lost it when I saw that pic!!!
M-35 going on 15 D-8 S- 3 yrs ex-CL(w)- 30
D over one year
I may not have gone where I intended to go, but I think I have ended up where I needed to be. Douglas Adams "Just Be"
CM is right. You hold the cards right now. You get you a lawyer and tell him how she does and who she hangs with. Let him know that she is the one messing up the kids heads by not letting them stay on schedule.
Am I correct here or did I not read where you said sometimes on her days with them she leaves them at her parents house and goes and stays with the sex offender? If she does, bring that up too. It shows she would rather have her fun than take care of the kids. Do whatever it takes to help yourself.
Whoops I kinda mess up. On My Space I poster a bulliten that stated my W was a Crazy B!thc and she was at her friends and saw it...She TM'ed me stating simply "So I am a crazy B!tch Huh?" My response..."It is a term of endearment" Now I just got another one stating "Grow up"....I want to call her so nad and just rip her but that will do me no good. I want to reply and rip her but that would do me no good. I really need to vent to some one before I flip my wig....
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."
