Steph, I don't have much to offer, except to be there for your d, your w still has things to work out, if you feel like too much time with her, then back off slow. My h is moving today, and I am going to wait and see if he makes contact with me, I don't want to start pursueing. I understand with small kids the contact is different, a 2 yr old really does not understand what is going on, but don't let your anger and frustration with w show with d, that is where you and w have to make the best effort to not put the other down but to try and explain in 2 yr old sense why one or the other might be sad or mad about something, They grasp more then we think. Good luck Sue
