steph, my h is not yet home but is now trying to get here, spending 5 out of 7 nights with me...
he moved out back in april....said the d word in june, had been having and ea with a married woman who is now getting a d ...
h was addimant about not wanting to work at the r... just wanted to be friends... there was no hope, " i'm not comming home"
love you not in love with you all that bla bla
I think it was when I finally just let go, accepted that he would never be comming back to me and moved on... that is when he outwardly expressed his confusion and desire to try.
seemed like the more comfortable i got with the prospect of d the less comfortable he got with it.
LL
