Bad? I don't think its all that bad to ask for a hug once in a while. I do it all the time, however, I am in piecing mode

I would think its probably not all that great to ask for when things are still strained. However, there are lots of people you can get hugs from other than your S - its important. Try it and see how much better you feel

Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)