Not knowing the reason your wife is mad has alot to do with the right answer.

Were you separated?
Were your parents "on your side"?
Has she always felt this way?

I used to really like my inlaws until MLC struck and the whole family turned against me.

And now I do not even want their names mentioned in my home!!!

There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.