Ben, I called him yesterday to let him know that i had an appt at the MC and invited him to go. That was the only reason I called. Then I just asked how he was doing and asked if he was in the same position. His reply "I am just doing alot of thinking." And I said "About what?" And his reply "About everything." I dropped it and said that I would talk to him later.
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."