The Superior Man?

[cac4]

There are a couple guys here who I really do see as Mr.Sensitvie marrying Ms.Assertive. I believe Cac4? who is married to a Japanese woman is one of these.

you're way off, dude. My wife is most certainly not Japanese. Unless, by "Japanese", you mean "Canadian".
But otherwise, I can see that dynamic.
(and...pretty amazing that you would remember that about me.)

And it's all pretty unfair - because Mr. Sensitive didn't really change.

yeah, that's kind of how I feel, too.