I just wanted to see how you're doing? And thank you so much for the ebooks. As soon as I finished downloading, I started reading the How to Break Free one. I must say there's a lot of interesting information there that you won't find in other books of the same topic and vice versa.
Speaking of links, what worked for me so far is this fairly new site called meetup.com You might say, hmmmm it's seems like of those myspace kind of deal. True it has a lot in common. But, this is more along the lines of the Yahoo Groups or AOL. You can look up a "meetup group" typing key words as parameters for your search. Such as in my case say hiking, conversational spanish or portuguese, etc. Then I joined the group and attended their activities. In the groups that I've joined so far, the diversity is amazing such that the age from 25-55, singles and couples (both married and others), diff. ethnic backgrounds, religion, etc. Some even bring kids to the events. Just a simple conduit channeling people of different interests to find their particularly group and enjoy activities that are held by same. Check it out.
Remember to try and always "act as if" and keep a PMA when you interact with your H. I know its particularly hard when they are being difficult and such but it'll get somewhat easier with practice. Hang in there. Take care and keep posting.
