Corri, one of the issues we are having now is that she seems to have set aside all that she is, and is instead trying to be what she thinks everyone else wants her to be: best mom, best wife, best cubscout leader, best churchlady etc. After trying to do all that, she doesn't see room for her preferences. Naturally, this setting aside herself has created quite a bit of internal conflict, and I think is at least a significant contributor to her depression (which she refuses help with). How do I encourage her to put her needs first?
