amen brother. Same thing here, family time does not suffer and MOST sleepovers are planned for a night D7 has a regular date with grandma. POS! And the martyr thing...this week I heard "I am in love and want to spend more time with X...I know you are having a hard time but I think much of the problem is your non-acceptance of how I feel..."

gee it must be heartbreaking to want to sleep around and not have time to do it without others sitting around being hurt by your actions! Damn I can be so inconsiderate. I'm so sorry that I have the nerve to cry as you leave.

GRRRRRR!!!!!! I want to hear:
"the aliens have returned my brain, wiping clean all traces of OW and replacing her with a HUGE desire to work on myself and therefore US and the future! They installed a device allowing you to program your every desire into my heart and I will follow your instructions."

Can we have cocoa at the sleepover?


I have a shovel and I'm not afraid to use it.
Stubby