Hey Lou...
She represents both women and men, and seems to me to be able to view both her client, and the other party, fairly objectively. It's not that she's "bringing her work home," so much as she's bringing an "intolerance to compromise" to our home, and that is something she doesn't necessarily practice at work.

Burg: I see your point about the "he doesn't want me, he just wants sex", and that she may indeed choose to give "cold fish" or "crap" sex, x times a week, but I think that it's still worth a shot. Perhaps she'll see my attitude improve because a)I'm getting whatever I'm getting x times a week, and b)I appreciate that she's making an effort, even if it's a poor effort. As my attitude improves, the general marital attitude improves, and then she'll finally realize how easy it all is, etc.

And then, of course, the fairy princess will come out of the magic pumpkin and reveal that our house is made of gold and that I can fly, become invisible, control time, and we'll all live happily ever after.

It could happen.

Hairdog, who always claps at the appropriate time in "Peter Pan"