I would love to hear...."I really do love you with all of my heart. I have been so stupid. She means nothing and I will never speak with her again. Thank you for standing behind me and loving me even though I have been a complete and selfish jerk!"
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."