Originally Posted By: Aud31
Is there a danger in my 'patiently' waiting for him to get his crap together? Will he think it's okay for him to leave me hanging FOREVER? Will our kids grow up knowing only a 10-min-every-other-day-father? Ugh.


I often wonder about that too! Although my S5 is doing a really good job at giving the H a guilt trip. I guess he was lecturing him last night. He was telling him "Daddy, you need to come home. You know that you need to be here with us." I guess H just ignored it or didn't respond. Makes me ill at time.

Keep your head up Aud! WE WILL MAKE IT THROUGH THIS!


"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."