Let me think of something real good that I can get you with. Hmmm......give me a little time. I don't know if I am brave enough to post it on here though. I am trying to keep my reputation out of the toilet.
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."