I can't answer that, but I do recall that you were very upset when you thought your H might move out. I think you first have to figure why that was the case.
I was upset because he was threatening to just quit his job and head out west. I would have been left to deal with the whole mess of the finances and the kids reaction to his behavior. Corri called me on this previously wondering why I was able to calmly consider the idea of my H being married to another woman but lost it when he threatened to quit his job. Basically, I got upset for the same reason Corri would get upset if her X told her that he was quitting his job and moving to Tahiti and she should no longer expect any child support from him financially or emotionally. Remember my H also kind of threatened suicide. How would anyone like to be the spouse left with the aftermath of that? I can't even begin to explain how desperate and trapped that makes me feel. I am having a persistent fantasy that some other woman will come and take him off my hands.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
