Still alive

[Burgbud]

(bf) Telling her he wants a woman that fillintheblank, would probably prompt her to reply that he should go get him one of those women.

Fair point. I still don't like your last sentence but it points out the shortcomings in my version. For my own purposes I'll change it to something like, "And I'll teach her to surrender to me," trusting my own strength. That sort of implies I'm responsible for something beyond my control but I can live with that.


(Lil) Telling his wife what he "deserves" will just send the convo down a winding path into the deep, dark, featureless piney woods from whence it will never emerge.

I see your point. What I don't like about the "N times per week" statement is that it can feed into the LD spouse's notion that "they don't want *me*, they just want s3x". Also, if she agrees and gives him cold fish s3x once a week, he's gotten what he asked for.