Okay, tantrum over. Here's what I want from you guys. Is there anyone on this BB who can tell me why (besides the fact that I still have one minor child at home) I shouldn't leave this relationship OR what I can do to stop the inevitability that I will leave this relationship once my daughter leaves home? I should note that I don't think that a change in my mental attitude will be enough. Something concrete needs to happen here.


"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver