GGB,it's not that I do not want to go but she's been making excuses abt who's going to look after the kids etc.....putting it off saying "let's wait till the kids are older".

You are right. I guess I have to be more assertive on this to save the marriage.
To be honest, I feel like giving up and letting our lives remain as is. It seems to be a 1-way thing as she's not making any effort at all.
Anyway, I'm hanging on till I have exhausted all avenues.
And yes, I still love her dearly.....but I'm this close to breaking down. She just does not know how much she's hurting me....

Last edited by love-wanted; 02/02/07 03:05 PM.