Right in theory L just not that easy to do is it. I'm really struggling. I'm completely and utterly fed up to the back teeth with it all. Like you say LETS JUST STOP THIS AND GET BACK TO HOW IT SHOULD BE MAN!!!!!!!!!!! I'm totally ..... off with waiting for a proper kiss. Its a kiss for goodness sake. Its what married people do. I have just completely lost it and H has shouted and I've cried bucket loads over this issue. He has calmed down now and said he's sorry for shouting and he says he doesn't know what the problem is but feels pressured by me. I know I really need to back off but I seem to have completely lost all patience with this issue. He says he doesn't want me to feel heartbroken every day and I said that is how I feel. He said he doesn't need my help to fix it he just needs normal everyday life. To me kissing/ML to your H/W is part of normal everyday life. I just wanted to say that to him - "no you don't want normal everyday life you just want me to cook and clean and go out with you and then just squash anything I want out of the deal out of my head". Sorry I'm ranting I am just so ...... off as I'm sure you can tell.
I hope you're right L I hope we do get the things we want a hundred fold some day and I hope its some day soon.
