Do not look at it as you failed. Look at it as you succeeded in creating a better life for YOU. You are in a much better place when YOU are in control of your life. The bad moments is when you let your W sneak back in and take some control back.
I am behind you and I am sorry that it is going to come down to this. However, I am happy that you have stood as long as you have and really gave it your all. You have created a better life in the past year or so for yourself and that is really what matters here.
No one knows what the future holds for you and your STBX. A lot of the people I see on here that reconcile their difference have either been D'ed or have been legally seperated for quite sometime.
Move on with your life for You brother. Take care of you and your kids because in the long run that is all that you are gauranteed.
Hey, If you ever need to chat you know my number...
Take care, Ben
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."
