I do think I'm walking that line pretty well. I didn't try to "fix", but I did try to suggest some approaches that might help her see her problem differently - the key point being that it's up to her to change her own attitude. Didn't belabor the point, just offered hopefully helpful suggestions, then backed way off and returned to listening and validating.
Thread #10 22 year M, MLC, Piecing since 1/07 Goal: Live with confidence & enthusiasm!