Sorry, wrong label. I hate labels anyway. I guess I was just thinking of someone who needs a little time to ramp up their sexuality rather than someone who is ready to go. I never thought that the ramping-up could be done by the woman, just assumed it would be the man's leading action that would do it. Silly me.
You are right. I have lost a lot of respect, and it will be some time before I regain it, if ever. I guess I was just ruminating on how I may have done things wrong in the past, and/or could do better in the future.
Chrome
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"