If he does read your posts, it might be a good idea to start again under a new name and give a bit less detail (or thrown in some false but superficial detail to throw him off the scent) I do believe very strongly that unless you're at the reconciliation/piecing stage, it's not helpful for our S's to read our posts. They're for us to vent and discuss theories and aproaches. Much of the good work of DBing is undone by WAS thinking it's just another manipulative ploy. It's about so much more, real change and self analysis, but it's easy to get the wrong end of the stick.
You cannot teach a man anything; you can only help him discover it in himself. Galileo Galilei
