It is amazing what we go through (and put ourselves through) and still come out on the other side sane (or are we? )

Funny you should say you thought your sitch was "unique" as that was one of the comments C made to us. He said, regardless of what you are going through right now, you should know, your situation is NOT unique. It actually made us both feel better just him saying that.

No one can tell you what is right and wrong and as much as we all want to do the "right" thing, WE are the only ones that know what that "right" thing is.

You should be commended for holding tough as long as you have, I would think most posters on here would be thrilled to have a S that has been as dedicated and understanding as you have been.

I have to say, it is definitely your W's loss.

Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)