UL, I think you need to continue to concentrate on you! Keep making yourself a damn good alternative to OW. I think others are right when they say he probably is pretty mixed up right now. Let him have his emails, texts whatever, the more you try to stop him with remarks like "why do you look guilty?" the more you keep OW alive and well. Act "as if" you are confident and a woman who can handle life with or without him. As he re-connects with you things will change. I think you are also in a difficult position because he hasn't yet told you the A with OW is over, unless I missed something! So you are still in play here. It's great to hear your progress, we're all proud of you here!!!!
