I am 26 and my W is 24 and we have S 3 and M 5. She is definatly on the immature side, I see her trying to be an adult but she keeps saying she missed out on stuff nd she wants to relive the years she missed. Im trying to tell her we have a S and I need her support in raising him and that doesn't mean parting all night. So I have see her make steps towards making more mature decisions. I try to understand that we did get married young, and that "we are not old" So I try to do fun things with her. Well anyway today we had a good convo. about her thoughts on the war I listened didn't totaly agree, she doesn't realize that I went to Iraq to help set up stuff while she was pregnant it was only for a few weeks but I never told her because I didn't want to have her loose another baby due to stress or anything else. She actually said I like talking to you because you listen to what I say and you don't try to force your veiws on me. I love this woman and I do feel like we have grown apart to an extent since the 10 month sep. but, I think it is something we can work past, hopefully asap although im sure like everything it will take awhile.
