I'd like to hear "Dear, why don't we buy a bigscreen TV for the Superbowl". Actually I'd probably settle for "How was your day?" Go for thse baby steps.
How about "You were right sweetie! She never did leave her husband or had any intention of leaving her husband for me. She's old, fat and not even close to the woman you are. You are still the one I love and want to spend the rest of my life with, can you ever forgive be for being a dirty, rotten rat ba@#$rd? Please forgive me or I will lose the will to live!"
HARHARHARHAR!! I would love to say "You promise?"
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." -Eleanor Roosevelt. M-42, H-42. M-22yrs, together 27yrs, Sep 5yrs. D-22, S-18 I'm a survivor
It didn't have to be funny Theoden...we'd all like to hear the same thing you said!
but in the spirit of good venting: "No wonder I feel so at ease with her, she has the same unfinished business I do. No thank you, I prefer to be your imago and work through my business with you!"
I have a shovel and I'm not afraid to use it. Stubby
"some days" - ???? I think its a little more frequent than that for me
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
I'd like to hear " OP actually had the nerve to tell me she had needs too, it's over!" or maybe "OP had a horrific accident, she drowned in all that empathy that was oozing from her pores, I'll never be able to whine and cry about my problems ever again, I could never again endanger another human being in such a way...when does the Super Bowl start?" Is this like the Miracle Question?