I will second your ideas on teasing. That post of yours brought back some fond memories. I’ve been in that position and what I do remember at the time was the subtle yet clear intent of the woman to be in control, to take me to the edge, back me off, drive me wild, in almost a sadistic (but nice) way. It was in many ways a power trip for her. I remember sort of thinking that this might have been her way of turning the tables on men. I’ve experienced this with more than one woman (Damn I’m an idiot! Look what I ended up with!)
