(bf) I will say, when negotiating you have to shoot for the moon and then meet in the middle. you dont come in with your lowest acceptable terms, and expect that to be the end of the negotiation.

(Lil) ...why not do like the NOPs and tell her you want to do it every day.

If he's going to shoot the moon why not shoot the whole moon and ask for what he really wants? I don't know what he really wants, of course, but I suspect it's something like...

"I want a woman who's confident enough to allow a man into her life. A woman who's giving enough to explore my sexuality without judgment. Who's courageous enough to explore her own sexuality without flinching from what she finds. And a woman strong enough to surrender."

That oughta scare her into the occasional shag.


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