The best article ever about infidelity

[Rollercoasterider]

I read it...it's freaky accurate. Defnitely needs to be bumped...and perhaps added to Smurf's all links thread.

[naej]

Hi Wonder, I have my hand up Miss-I read it all, but will need to re read.
Not sure why I read it as 6 years on gone is gone but a part of me perhaps still looks for the answer to why even tho I KNOW there is NO answer.
I still struggle with the stats given out for those who come back after affairs. Not what newbies to this forum want to hear though.
Maybe its different for those of us who had long term marriages. Hope all is well for you and your difficulties resolved, let me know how you are doing.

[almosthopeless]

Hi wonder,

That was a great article, thanks for the link. I'm sorry, I wrongly attributed it to nicola's thread, rather than yours!

Anyway, thanks. I felt better after reading it--it explained so much.

Hugs.
AH

[Iwondertooo]

Hey, a couple comments, first of all for me it's been 5 years I still wonder why and this article did it for me, helped me find my peace, it really was never about me. I keep bumping it up because it could answer a lot of questions people have. Not even sure how I found it, was not looking. I hope people read it, there seems to be a need right now. The new stats show how many people are on this board. So sad. MLC didn't have to be this way. Wonder.