Thank you for the validation CL. How do you deal with the sick feelings and sometimes overwhelming need to "find out more"? I see by your sitch that GW has taken liberties with your patience and love as well?

H is coming over again tonite. Last night he was quite distracted and troubled but refused to talk. One thing he said to me about OW was that she doesn't let him just walk away from her, she makes him talk to her...not sure if he liked that about her or not. I feel that often times he waits for me to extract info then he can either confirm or deny but the words came out of my mouth not his. My therapist is suggesting that radical honesty is to be expected by me of him. How to implement is the question?


"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." -Eleanor Roosevelt.
M-42, H-42. M-22yrs, together 27yrs, Sep 5yrs.
D-22, S-18
I'm a survivor