Hey Hairy, good to see you back and still alive. I just cracked up reading your post and remembered the chocolate cake incident. Still good old sarcastic HD.

Strap on the brass set HD for the big talk. Everyone's advice is the same as ever STAND UP TO HER and tell the truth. I just had a "big talk" with my H - more of that elsewhere

Oh and if you should feel in the mood for baking then feel free to fedex a slice to me - dark chocolate yummy!

take care

Fran

if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs
Erica Jong