Corri

I feel the same way about Cemars sitch. Once before when he was talking about 'eyes wide open' orgasm's being necessary, when it seems that there is very little intimacy between them. She will also have sex with him whenever he wants.

It just feels like he has totally dominated and broken her, rather then given her any emotional goodies so that she can lovingly surrender. In that sense, she has actually defeated him by giving him 'whatever he wants', but he is not getting what he needs, and is still unsatisfied.
so now the will'o'the'wisp is a word called desire.

Fearless, good stuff, in that last post. I look forward to the aformentioned post that you are holding hostage, and keeping us in anticipation of.