I think everyone has their own "limit" as to what is right and wrong. Personally I don't think I would have the patience as so many on these boards seem to have.

That being said, I am sure there are others on the board that would not stand for their S having two A's (which mine did) - never say never eh?

Anyway, I think it is one own's decision to make. No one can tell you when to call it quits, its just something you have to come to decide on your own.

When the first A happened, and I was recovering, I said to myself that I would never, ever go through this again - right! However, I do know that if it happened a third time, that would definitely be the end of it. It has already come close to that several times this time around. The difference is, my H is making a lot of effort to read, go to C, etc. to help piece this R back together again - something he never did the first time, which I feel was a major problem we had then

Hopefully we can rectify it this time around.

Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)